There are many people on this planet that spend a majority of their time focused on ‘what happened to them’ so much so that it seems to me that is what they become… the thing that happened to them. They are now unlucky because once something unlucky happened or they are now dumb because one time someone said they weren’t smart.
If we stay focused on what happened to us, we start to believe it but we were given free choice which is the ability to choose. We can choose to become who we want to be and the person we were meant to be NOT something that happened to us.
Does this make sense to you?