When you are in a true relationship you can tell your partner any and everything, no secrets no lies, without feeling threatened, ashamed or scared. I think a relationship is about honesty, being who you are, warts and all. It seems to me a relationship based on secrets and lies has no foundation and no place to go. It just perpetuates the lack of trust. And sometimes telling the truth can be hurtful but in the end isn’t the truth worth it?