I remember, when I was younger, that all I wanted was a companion. I made myself miserable trying to figure out why there was no one in my life.
Once, I figured out that I really didn’t need anyone to make me happy, that I had to do that on my own, then the doors opened.
No one wants anyone to hinder their progress and when we ‘settle’ that is what happens, in my opinion.
What do you think?