Yes, you can!
I know a person who never offers to do anything. They just show up and expect (at least that is what it seems) to partake in whatever is happening without offering to do anything while everyone else is doing just the opposite. I don’t get it.
What I do get is that this person isn’t invited anymore to anything because of their behavior. I have made the choice to not be around them. I choose to be around people who share in the load.
Would you do this?