More than once I have let someone else’s opinion, of someone, cloud mine. I have learned, from those experiences, that other people’s opinions may not be the same as mine. And I am thankful that I have figured that out!
Now, if someone tells me they don’t like so and so or that so and so is so judgmental or any other judgement about them I just smile and nod. I wait until I meet the person to see if we click (not judge.)
I think this is a good lesson for all of us!