Sometimes forgiving is the hardest thing to do. We get ourselves so enmeshed in the issue that we can’t even begin to think about how to forgive and we become a prisoner to it.
Why would anyone want to be a prisoner of something that they didn’t cause? Just because you don’t like how someone is treating you or someone you know is mean, you don’t need to ‘own’ their stuff. The problem is with the person causing the issue.
As Jesus said.. forgive them for they know not what they do! Sounds live good advice to me and a way to not be a prisoner of someones stuff!