We are all here to learn and no one can do it for us. We all know people that we would love to ‘change’ but we cannot do that for anyone. It is truly an ‘inside’ job. That person has to want to change and go through whatever they need to go through to learn and make a change.
What we can do is be loving and supportive. Allow them to be who they are and trust that they are where they are supposed to be.