I recently watched ‘Thirteen Reasons Why’, a series about teen suicide. This saying says it all about why the main character, Hannah, committed suicide.
This group of teens bullied Hannah without really understanding the affect it was having on her. They wounded her so badly that she gave up and killed herself. Before she died, she made 13 tapes to those that affected her life so even in death she wounded them back.
In no way does hurting other people help make you feel better. You need to heal yourself; be honest, be upfront, and talk to an adult, someone who can help you but don’t go as far as the main character. Death is permanent. Hurt can be healed!