Be Careful!

Be Careful

I am sure we have all been burned by someone. And that will definitely make you more careful as to what you tell someone.

Know who you are sharing with!




Sometimes we think making a difference in someone’s life is about being amazing, rich talented beautiful or perfect but what we all want is to know that someone cares about us.

The definition of caring is to display kindness and concern for others. Such a simple thing yet most of us don’t take the time to do this. AND sometimes it only takes something as easy and straightforward as a smile. How hard is that? How long does that take?

We can all make a difference in someone’s life by just being you and caring!!!!!

No One Saves Us!


So many people want to be ‘saved’ by someone else. They want someone else to make all the effort but that isn’t how it works.

We all must walk our own paths. We are the only ones that can change and save ourselves. It isn’t ‘out’ there but inside. One foot in front of the other until it is done.

Are you trying to save someone or have someone save you?!

Accept Yourself!



If you can accept yourself, at any age, you have everything. The only person you have to prove anything to is yourself.

Your beauty shines when you are being yourself not following the crowd or worrying about what other people think. What matters is how you feel about you.

It may not happen overnight but don’t give up. You are worth it!



Those who care about you are going to make every effort to help and support you when you need something or ask them a favor. Those that make an excuse all the time, aren’t really your friends, in my opinion.

Do you have people in your life who make excuses all the time when you ask them something? Do you really want to be their friend? How are they supporting and caring for you? Something to think about.

I think life is too short to hang onto people who really don’t care about me. What do you think?

Be There!


December is a busy month as we prepare for the holidays… shopping, cooking, wrapping, baking, or a dozen other things that need to happen. It is also a time to be there for your friends, family and yourself!

If we get to busy we don’t find time for others and certainly not for ourselves. When we don’t give time to ourselves, we lose something. We lose the gift of reflection, listening and renewal. If we don’t do this for ourselves, we tend to get colds, or get sick and that certainly isn’t fun.

During this busy holiday take time out for your family, friends but mostly for you!

Don’t Wait!

Dont Wait

What are you waiting for? So many people seem to be waiting for…retirement, their kids to grow up, to change their job, their spouse to change or a dozen other things one could name.

As long as one waits, in my opinion, they aren’t living life. We all need to take care of ourselves and living life is caring for yourself.

Laugh, play, dance, walk in nature… do anything that gets you out there feeling and living life!